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Saluting the Real Nurturer of the National Mother’s Day

This post is doing double duty as an observance of Mother’s Day (this Sunday) and the current (Week 19) #52Ancestors theme of “Nurture!”

Skip’s 2nd cousin once removed, Mary Towles Sasseen, is considered by many to be the actual founder of Mother’s Day in the United States. Netta Mullin, President of the Henderson County, Kentucky Historical Society, wrote that Mary “Mamie” Sasseen , a former schoolteacher, sought to have April 20, her own mother’s birthday, declared a national holiday for individuals to celebrate their mothers. Ms. Sasseen published and circulated a pamphlet in 1893 explaining her efforts to create a holiday that would be celebrated in the public schools. During her lifetime, her efforts led to the establishment of Mother’s Day in the Springfield, Ohio school system, and in many other cities celebrations were organized.

Mary Towles Sasseen married Judge William Marshall Wilson in 1904, and sadly, died while delivering her first and only child, in 1906.

Anna Jarvis is credited with bringing about the existence of the National Mother’s Day, which was declared by President Woodrow Wilson in 1914, to be observed every second Sunday in May.  She wrote letters and rallied votes for the cause, true, but we recognize the lifetime achievement of Mary Towles Sasseen in laying the groundwork. She was a patient and dedicated nurturer of the national holiday, although it came into full bloom after her death.

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Mary Towles Sasseen, photo originally shared on ancestry by georgepbeaumaster

Historic Foundations for our Mother’s Day Holiday

Spending Mother’s Day in Philadelphia this year with some of my posterity! And having a great time!

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Mother’s Day breakfast buffet at home

Skip wanted all the kids to know that one of his ancestors, his first cousin twice removed, to be exact, is the ACTUAL originator of Mother’s Day [not Anna Jarvis, as most sources claim].

Sources that credit Anna Jarvis: NPR transcript from 2016, Wikipedia, Night Terror News,  the Smithsonian,  and Facebook

However, some sources also give credit to others who played a part in the establishment of Mother’s Day as a national US holiday.

Sources that give credit to others, including Skip’s relative Mary Towels Sasseen: Books Tell You Why, Kentucky for Kentucky, The Gleaner, Facebook page of McCracken County, KY, Time.com, and Henderson County KY History.

From the various accounts, apparently Mary Towels Sasseen Wilson had success organizing Mother’s Day celebrations and assemblies in Kentucky and several other large cities in the country. She died in 1906, at the birth of her only child. After her death, Anna Jarvis’ work petitioning government officials bore fruit, and Mother’s Day was declared a national holiday.

From some accounts, Anna Jarvis later went on a huge campaign to undo the holiday status of the day, because she felt that it quickly became a crutch for greedy vendors to reap profits pandering flowers, gifts, restaurant meals, and greeting cards so they could make money. We went against the wishes of Anna Jarvis and partied it up with gifts, cards, and flowers, and special meals. 🙂

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special day breakfast*

Happy Mother’s Day y’all.

 

 

 

 

*these flowers are actually from a dear friend for another occasion, but they still look beautiful a week later!